Adam. Been
following you since the 2003 movie Anger Management which I saw in 2006. I
think the subjects you present to the public are pretty relevant, demonstrating you are a true artist. This is not new to
you. What might be new to you, is that this quality belongs in the category of being
a born healer, meaning that you in
your profession help people to heal
themselves by putting a mirror in
front of them. A cute one at that. I see you as the caretaker – like coach “buzzer” in Grown Ups who brought you and
your friends together.
What's next |
You show wit and common sense and “cut to the chase language”, therefore I think you might be the only one who would be open to the suggestions I have, because you might have reached a certain point, stuck if you like, looking for new ways to express emotions or even educate your public… A constant stage of “what’s next”, so to speak.
To start
this off: you might be considered to be the best in your line of work but for
me that doesn’t say a thing. And neither does your bank account. Everyone is
looking for “improving” – of
themselves, eventually. Even you need to improve because that is a human
standard and a “constant” – meaning no one escapes this inner drive. I don’t
have the arrogance to put to you that improvement should come from Europe but
miraculously (how do I write that?) here in Amsterdam, The Netherlands, people
really are in the position of bettering the quality of their lives so why
shouldn’t others profit from that?
Let's be honest |
There are a
few things I noticed about you and your movies which I would like to discuss
with you and I want to be frank, open
and specific. The way your character expresses itself throughout your
movies gives the impression that you would prefer to talk the same way. Then
surely I can.
People don't know what they don't know |
Don't be a guru
Secondly,
in your country it is custom to humiliate losers and… women. You obviously live
in the most competitive country on the entire world. But… life and being happy is
not about that. Competition is awkward, false and totally meaningless. It is a Divide and Conquer thing to trick
us into giving away our power and letting us be dominated. Surely you
understand this already, because this is magnified in several of your movies to
rub it in the viewers faces. Don’t humiliate anyone anymore. It is immature,
childish even and fires back at you.
Don't humiliate others |
Thirdly,
you rub in your Yewishness in several of your movies. I think one should be
proud of himself or herself – for sure – but never about a religion. I think
that (doing so, that) is a false religion. Understandable, but a misguiding
signal to the public. People don’t need to be guided or conquered or won over
for a religion. That is the way of the guru who needs followers. You are not a
sect, are you? Don’t do that. It is annoying and unnecessary.
Point is,
religion does not give any support at all. At all. Only fake support. George
Carlin tried to teach us that (fb.com/793309960778673) but failed in your case.
Please, do not use “your” movies as an advertisement for being Yewish or even
promoting Yewishness anymore. You only make it worse. People are not stupid.
They sense the true truth through anything.
There is no unspoken, one sided, not-terminable contract between people |
To take that a little step further into the truth… no religion defines who you are. The choice of your religion just points out which one is mastering, suppressing and owning you. Let it go. Go get to be yourself. And ditch the parent (mostly the mother) who does the same to you and doesn’t let go of you, thus forcing you to be something you are not; a slave to their needs.There is no unspoken, one sided, not-terminable contract between people. It is only the need of the parent you are supporting; not your own. There is no such thing as forced on loyalty. Becoming an adult implicates that you should go your own way without any ties to parent or partner, and thus develop your talents in its unique way, not following the aggressive and abusive grip of the forceful parent.
This message is actually an invitation to finding the inner dialogue with yourself and following your own heart, which is exactly the same thing; not that of the compulsory addicted parent or partner, without any escape possibility, thus enslaving you for life, to be the support others need without ever LIVING yourself.
My point/the essence |
The very
essence of all this, is this:
1. Schools make us schizophrenic; when
“feelings don’t matter and are only
for pussies”, and our minds are the only things that matter, these institutes chase us away from ourselves and (at
the same time) putting us up against ourselves, so we end up fighting with
ourselves and thus sabotaging our own lives.
2. We all lose our self-esteem and our (self) confidence growing up. Structurally! Not
only schools do this; parents know nothing else. That sucks. We end up
fighting. With ourselves…
3. Women are NOT the lesser species of
our human race and should be fundamentally treated as equals; your “jokes”
regarding women and their qualities (for instance in the 2014 movie “Blended”
in the basketball scene where daughter Larry/Hillary knocks down a male
contestant making him suck in the eyes of his father and where Tatu and his
band starts up singing You Suck You Suck You Suck for losing from a “girl”)
seem to illustrate this “division of power”. That sucks. Show us the opposite;
I don’t mean that women are stronger. I mean women are equal but we don’t treat
them like that… at all.
You don’t show to be aware. You call a woman a girl and a boy a man (50 first dates, 2004). American people are not A-types; their minds are fucked up by our educational system. Just like in all other western countries. Even in Finland, where there is no homework and short school weeks, still they manage to twist and fuck people up.
You don’t show to be aware. You call a woman a girl and a boy a man (50 first dates, 2004). American people are not A-types; their minds are fucked up by our educational system. Just like in all other western countries. Even in Finland, where there is no homework and short school weeks, still they manage to twist and fuck people up.
4. Bottom line:
people act detached from their true selves and need to get back to their
feelings. Desperately.
See the 1995 movie “La belle verte/the green beautiful” to show you my point exactly: fb.com/1369644623145201
See the 1995 movie “La belle verte/the green beautiful” to show you my point exactly: fb.com/1369644623145201
Personal |
To finish
this message I need to be really personal. Your personality lacks self-esteem.
You know this. It shows. You are radiation it constantly. People call you egg
head and this is not because of the shape but because YOU MAKE THEM NOTICE IT.
There is no other real explanation. Trust me, I have done my research on that
one.
So instead of making new movies and keep trying to make everybody happy, you should be doing yourself that favor… and improve the QUALITY of the CONTENT.
The movies look great, the acting is, well, “okay” , there is a lot of laughter and even emotional moments, but your movies lack depth. Like completely. And it is time for it. You are the only one capable of providing that so I am addressing you for that.
In your 2006-movie “Click” you showed us: “FAMILY COMES FIRST”. Bull Shit. You miss the point completely. YOU YOU YOU come first – and nobody else – because you are the most important person in the world. So you should make the effort to correct what went wrong during childhood – being dominated by everything and everybody – and find out what it is to be and act mature. And if you can’t, you have to search and find out why. That’s what we have been doing here in Holland.
So instead of making new movies and keep trying to make everybody happy, you should be doing yourself that favor… and improve the QUALITY of the CONTENT.
The movies look great, the acting is, well, “okay” , there is a lot of laughter and even emotional moments, but your movies lack depth. Like completely. And it is time for it. You are the only one capable of providing that so I am addressing you for that.
In your 2006-movie “Click” you showed us: “FAMILY COMES FIRST”. Bull Shit. You miss the point completely. YOU YOU YOU come first – and nobody else – because you are the most important person in the world. So you should make the effort to correct what went wrong during childhood – being dominated by everything and everybody – and find out what it is to be and act mature. And if you can’t, you have to search and find out why. That’s what we have been doing here in Holland.
To be
honest, you are not even close. You are no longer the smart guy. You are being
outsmarted by everyone if you don’t take care of yourself for a change. I am
serious. You should. If you make so many successful movies which go around the
globe, entertaining millions of people, you might (and should) consider putting
some time in YOU. Regardless of any consequences. I dare you. You come first.
Nobody else. Not your wife. Not your beloved child(ren) who has a soul of its
own and a responsibility of its own path to follow. You should take your
responsibility and take time for you, instead of continuing making childish
moves which never enter the level of actually being GROWN UP.
Holland, Holy Land |
It would be
easy to reject these suggestions. Everybody does. Americans don’t know how to make
this work properly, so it is up to us, Europeans. And we will. I live in
Amsterdam and I suggest you take time to meet me if you ever create the chance
to visit Europe – and not for racing through stupid museums to take photos and
disappear within a few hours, but to really take time to get to know yourself a
little better.
I will be
here. Doing the same thing. Writing letters to stupid people in an effort to
open their hearts.
In 2004
Deepak Chopra visited Amsterdam, and I heard him speak these words: “Holland is
the Holy Land.” “Here the change will start.” I myself don't know about that. These
words just popped up in my mind. Maybe to help you consider different thoughts,
so you might start seeing your world in a different way.
Some
advice. Don’t judge. Ask questions. Or try, at least. Americans don’t know the
answer. None of them do. They only know violence and world domination – ask the
first nation people for that one. But that is your problem (actually it is
everybody's problem). We Dutchies know that concept of violence too, because that
is way in our past, now. It helped us to get where we are now. We need to
prepare for world peace by a human collective, instead… Together. Are you with
me?
This is it.
This is my open letter to you and to anyone who encounters it.
So… Who
wants to translate this letter into actual English for me?++
My open letter to actor, comedian, producer and moviemaker, Adam Sandler. | December 26th, 2017